Encouraging My Client to Accept Their Condition

Denial of a dementia diagnosis often stems from fear—there’s just something about accepting the condition that makes it seem more real. Right after the person has received their diagnosis, give them some time and space to think about it, and how they want to approach the situation or proceed. Do give them some time to speak to their loved ones and caregivers too. However, if they continue to deny their diagnosis, do be patient and continue to support them. One of the things you can do is to find out more about the dementia support groups or therapies run by Dementia Singapore or other organisations, and encourage your clients or caregivers to try attending them. If caregivers and your clients attending these sessions with caregivers and other people with dementia, they may be able to see how such persons are still capable of living meaningful lives and having fun. This can be helpful in assuaging fears they have and allow them to come to terms with their diagnosis. It is also important to stay calm and supportive. Persons with dementia can live full and fulfilling lives with your support, especially at the early stages. Check out the stories of dementia advocates from Dementia Singapore’s Voices For Hope programme, and other inspiring persons with dementia like Kate Swaffer and George Chong, who are embodiments of the fact that life does not come to and end because of a dementia diagnosis; rather, it is a new adventure.